Monday, March 16, 2009
Busy busy busy
Regrettably, it has been awhile since I posted, but it is never far from my mind. I always have a great deal to say about this LDR quandary. Lots of hopes and dreams. Lots of laments and despair. At this moment, there is more lamenting and despair and not much new to report. I have been trying very hard to keep my attention focused on my studies, preparing for my first licensing exam. The date is rapidly approaching, and will be sure to keep the site updated with the progress of that particular series of stress and torture. Richard is back in SoCal. We had a lovely weekend together in Santa Fe, NM the last weekend in February. He is now back living with his roommates, which means less time to talk and no more Skype, which is sad. I have really been missing that the past few weeks. So we decided not to see each other again until I am done with my test, so I can devote my entire weekends to my revising. No updates with his work, and there probably won't be for some time. In this economy, I am hesitant to give up a really, really good gig up here and move down there. I would if he could promise me that his job will keep him in SoCal, which he is not willing to do. He will willingly go wherever they send him, no questions asked. So I don't want to uproot my life to be uprooted again in a few weeks or months. So we keep on keeping on. For how long can this go on, I'm not sure, but we will both find out.
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Oh Carrie, I strongly disagree if you'll quite you job to be with him in SoCal. Not to mentioned "he's willing to go anywhere, they send him"
OR - - you CAN move there with him and be a lovely perfect housewife, in which you should make sure that he can really support the family. You know what i mean.
Good luck with your license exam and hang in there. You're not alone ;)
Hi Carrie,
My name is Karina and I am a blogger on Journeys In Love. I have been reading your blog often... And I just wanted to send you a virtual hug and good luck on your exam. Everything with the boy will work out, I am sure. I hope you get to skype soon, I know that has made a world of difference in my LDR...
Just wanted to say hi, and I hope everything is going well. I hope there will be more smiles than sadness from now on :)
Hey Carrie, I am in a long distance relationship (or was, not shure right now) for 11 months now. We met through the internet and he came for a visit. Stayed for 2 months and then left we have filled for my visa and it is about to clear out, but at some point I felt we were growing apart. He would go surfing and visiting friends on weekends and our long hours on the messenger came down to typing. So I talked to him and said I needed him to priorize and he got mad and said the relationship is over (he is kind of the impulsive type). Now Im really sad cause I already sold everything I had, have no job and I do not know what Im going to do. If you have some advise, I would really like to hear it.
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